In fact, 27% (back in 2014) of respondents in our survey said they’d tried anal sex. While some have issues with that (as seen in the comments of the post linked above), many are generally accepting of it. However “regular” anal sex is generally thought of as the husband penetrating the wife. If you want to argue with me, you can do so there, but for the purpose of this post, let me restate my prior assertion that I don’t believe it is wrong to engage in anal sex in your married sex life, provided it’s with your spouse. We’ve already done that in the post Is anal sex a sin. Now, I’m not terribly interested in re-hashing the “Is anal sex sinful” argument. So, let’s tackle that and then move on to the rest. So, there a few questions in there, but the biggest one is “is pegging sinful”. Is “pegging” sinful? What would be the wisest way to express my desire to my wife? I hope I’m not being too explicit, but I need your help in this area because I aspire to a fulfilling sex life AND spiritual life. This does not mean that there is a sort of pretending of gender role reversal, but the physical pleasure associated with the prostate and new emotional connection. I want to be sure of where this stands biblically if in the confines of a Christian marriage. Being a heterosexual male brings the stigma of it being a “gay thing” and although I know that I may enjoy it and become more intimate with my wife, I certainly do not want to desire a sinful act. I have been interested to try “pegging” with my wife (which is the act of anal penetration of the man with a toy like a dildo or strap-on of some kind), but am afraid for many different reasons. I have recently had an interest in anal play meaning I am receiving anal pleasure. In that time, I have had many conversations about our sex lives and we have found out that I have a higher sex drive than she does and I am more adventurous when it comes to trying new things as long as they are not sinful and we are both on the same page about it. My wife and I have been married for a little over a year now. You guys have helped us immensely so far through the articles and podcasts. Plus, I received this question a couple of weeks ago: I think that number has gone up over the last 4 years, and it’s gotten to the point that I figured I should address it. From that survey, we found out that 8% of husbands were engaging in pegging or similar activities in their sex life. Way back in 2014, for those who weren’t following us yet, I posted the results of our survey on Christians, Anal Sex and Anal Play. Those in our private Facebook group know it’s been even longer – and my wife knows it’s been quite a long time coming.įor some time, I’ve been getting more and more questions about pegging. Those of you who get our weekly newsletters know that I’ve been dragging my feet while writing this for the last week.
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